An image of a woman(shiliz) standing and smiling My life 

WHY I DECIDED TO START BLOGGING

It all started back in May 2017 when a person very close to me told me that I had a way with words and that I should continue writing that ‘men stuff,‘ and maybe one day I could blog and make Money for my kid’s school fees. Well, I didn’t take what he said seriously at the time until I did a post on ‘MAFISI’ and one of my friends, a journalist, did an article on it and it was picked by three major Radio stations. For this and many…

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BENEFITS OF LIVING A SINGLE LIFE (My story)

As most of you may or may not know, I have been single for almost 2 years now.  At first, it was hard as I had just come from a 7 year long distance relationship, from which I had two babies. Then of course I tried to do what most women do after a break up.. move on fast in order to: 1.Avoid dealing with the pain. 2.Prove to my ex that I could be appealing to other men. 3.Try to get away from the thought of ever getting back…

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A high quality man Love 

A High quality Man versus a Jerk

No woman wants a jerk for a life partner. Every woman wants a good high quality man in her life. And by good I don’t mean a push over or a door mat. We want caring men that are sensitive towards our feelings, that love us genuinely. Men that at least try..if not make it a priority, to make us happy. Below is a comparison between a high quality man versus a not so good one, mostly referred to as a ‘jerk’. And before some of you go off on me,…

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10 Ways To Keep Nosy People Off Your Business.

I’m sure that I’m not the only one that has a problem with nosy people. Below are some of the ways in which to keep people off your business. Make them think that you tell them everything. Always give people the impression that you are open. That you tell them everything. This will prevent them from digging into your life and wanting to know more. Always give them answers that they want to hear. Once you get to know a person, you will know what they expect of/from you. If…

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Otile Brown Broke Up With Vera Sidika. Reason? Money!

I have been a big follower of Vera Sidika ever since the days of Nairobi diaries. She is a lady I admire especially for her business drive/acumen and hard work. I first found out about her and Otile Brown when they first broke up. To be honest, I did not know that he even existed before then. (I am not a big fun of secular music lately). I remember following him on Instagram immediately and even taking a peek into his you tube channel. Otile Brown then released a song (Achana…

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a group of three women friends Life 

8 Signs Of Fake/Toxic ‘Friends’ that you must let go of.

Are there people in your life that make you feel unimportant, unworthy, undeserving, underestimated, demeaned and so on? Do you ever feel uncomfortable and unappreciated in their company or midst? Are you afraid of letting them go simply because you feel like you owe or need them? Do you have fake/toxic people that you call friends in your life? If so, then you need to let go! Do not be afraid to drop people or let them go. Life is too short to tolerate anyone. If you want your life…

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couple out on the beach Love 

5 Things to avoid when asking a woman out on a first date.

Ever asked a woman out for a date and she agreed but then later she ignored your texts and calls? Well, you probably need to try the following next time: 1.Do not ask her over to your house for dinner/lunch/drink. Asking a woman to come over to your house for the first date will only make her put her guard up. She will assume you want to rush things or you just want to bed her. 2.Do not take her to a club. It all depends with what you hope…

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OUR CURRENT MEAL PLAN (What we eat in a weak)

A lot of people have been asking me to share our meal plan. Well, today I am going to share the one we are currently using, when school is ongoing. I do not make lunch during school days as my kids are away in school and also because I may not be home and if I am, I eat leftovers. We also don’t make dinner over the weekends. Instead, I make enough food during the day that can be eaten for supper as well.   BREAKFAST   LUNCH   SNACK…

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A single Mother getting kisses from her children Life Parenting 

WHY SINGLE MOTHERS ARE HEROES AND NOT CATASTROPHIC AND IMMORAL.

I have been seeing a lot of posts on Facebook where people (especially men which is very sad) disrespect single mothers. The kind of things they say are very disturbing. Some of these things include: Single mums are husband snatchers. They rely on sponsors. They sleep around even with their baby daddy’s etc. Single mum’s confession: People think my child was a mistake. He wasn’t. His father was~Whisper App Being a single mum does not mean that a woman is immoral like many people like to label them. In most…

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Busy rich man working on his laptop Life Love 

8 essential questions to ask yourself before getting involved with/wishing to be with a rich man.

A while ago i narrated a story about a man that went from filthy rich to bankruptcy in just a matter of days. A successful man for a boyfriend or a husband. Today I have a few questions for any woman seeking to be involved with a rich man and they go as follows: 1. Are you ready for very little quality time with him? Whereby you don’t get to see him as often as you’d like to because he has deadlines to meet. What of those business/work meetings that never…

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12 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE HUMBLE AND KIND

Humility is NOT being a Door mat, being Quiet, or NOT having an Opinion. It’s NOT softness, calmness or NOT thinking of yourself. According to google, Humility is the quality of having a modest or low view of one’s importance. Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. Are you humble and kind or proud and pompous? Below are 12 signs that show you are humble and kind: 1.Humble and kind people think of themselves less. You are humble and kind if you think about the well being of others most…

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