I came across Andrew Kibe’s page today and something caught my eye(he already read this article by the way).
He had a post saying that if you ask a gal out and she says, ‘tonight it’s me and my gals,’ ati leave her…she’s a stupid individual.
Sir, with all due respect, I totally disagree with you. By saying this, you’re actually misleading your fellow men.
Guys, if you meet a girl who has a life, who’s already happy, who knows how to keep herself happy without a man in her life, then ‘umeangukia‘.
Here are a few reasons why…
- It means that you won’t have so much pressure to make your woman happy, you can only add to or be part of her happiness.
- When it’s time to hang out with your boys or have some man space, she’ll understand and won’t guilt trip you or fight you over time spent away from her because she loves her own space and some girl time too (yaani,she won’t be clingy)
- You won’t have to hear gossip like sijui, ‘Nani waliachana na Nani. That guy is such an ….’ You know that stuff that you guys hate to hear when your women talks about? But you have to listen otherwise you’ll spend the night on the couch or some benefits will be taken away for a while? Yeah!
- It also means that your woman does not have some weird issues like being antisocial or being difficult to deal with etc OK? OK.