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10 Ways To Keep Nosy People Off Your Business.

I’m sure that I’m not the only one that has a problem with nosy people. Below are some of the ways in which to keep people off your business. Make them think that you tell them everything. Always give people the impression that you are open. That you tell them everything. This will prevent them from digging into your life and wanting to know more. Always give them answers that they want to hear. Once you get to know a person, you will know what they expect of/from you. If…

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8 Signs Of Fake/Toxic ‘Friends’ that you must let go of.

Are there people in your life that make you feel unimportant, unworthy, undeserving, underestimated, demeaned and so on? Do you ever feel uncomfortable and unappreciated in their company or midst? Are you afraid of letting them go simply because you feel like you owe or need them? Do you have fake/toxic people that you call friends in your life? If so, then you need to let go! Do not be afraid to drop people or let them go. Life is too short to tolerate anyone. If you want your life…

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WHY SINGLE MOTHERS ARE HEROES AND NOT CATASTROPHIC AND IMMORAL.

I have been seeing a lot of posts on Facebook where people (especially men which is very sad) disrespect single mothers. The kind of things they say are very disturbing. Some of these things include: Single mums are husband snatchers. They rely on sponsors. They sleep around even with their baby daddy’s etc. Single mum’s confession: People think my child was a mistake. He wasn’t. His father was~Whisper App Being a single mum does not mean that a woman is immoral like many people like to label them. In most…

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8 essential questions to ask yourself before getting involved with/wishing to be with a rich man.

A while ago i narrated a story about a man that went from filthy rich to bankruptcy in just a matter of days. A successful man for a boyfriend or a husband. Today I have a few questions for any woman seeking to be involved with a rich man and they go as follows: 1. Are you ready for very little quality time with him? Whereby you don’t get to see him as often as you’d like to because he has deadlines to meet. What of those business/work meetings that never…

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12 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE HUMBLE AND KIND

Humility is NOT being a Door mat, being Quiet, or NOT having an Opinion. It’s NOT softness, calmness or NOT thinking of yourself. According to google, Humility is the quality of having a modest or low view of one’s importance. Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. Are you humble and kind or proud and pompous? Below are 12 signs that show you are humble and kind: 1.Humble and kind people think of themselves less. You are humble and kind if you think about the well being of others most…

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10 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE PROUD OR POMPOUS

Pride has a lot of definitions most of which are positive. However, let’s talk about the kind of pride that most of us have but wouldn’t want to be associated with. The kind of pride that some people would refer to as pompous. And remember that we all have a certain degree of pride, but some people’s, is on another level. One among the many definitions of pride according to dictionary.com is ‘a high or inordinate opinion of one’s own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority, whether as cherished in the…

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6 Things That I Learnt From Being Broke

‘You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ‘Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved’ ~ Helen Keller Being broke is not a funny affair and no one wants to be in that situation. So we…

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6 THINGS THAT REALLY CAME IN HANDY WHEN I WAS BROKE.

If you are ambitious, in business, a risk taker, sometimes unrealistic and act on impulse etc.; you will lose money once or several times in your life. This could lead to having financial problems that could leave you bankrupt or broke in some cases. Last year, people close to me (family/business partners) and I were going through a rough time financially. Then came elections and things got even worse. Most of my income sources were not coming through and this led to living from hand to mouth, and I was…

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Every Kenyan Woman Needs To Know This.

Kenyan women need to know that not every rich guy or one that appears ‘rich’ is real. Also, not every mzungu out there is rich and honest. Some of these guys have realized that women will do just about anything to either be with a rich African man or any white man, and so they have mastered the art of conning African women. Let’s look at how each type of men are doing this: The ‘rich’ good looking African man with an admirable ‘career’ This guy has a great ‘career’…

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So You Say You Want A Successful Man For A Boyfriend Or A Husband?

As I was going about my business a few weeks ago, I met a very kind man that was probably in his late 50s. He helped me find my way to the bus stop as I was coming from a government institution in the outskirts of Nairobi. Coincidentally, he was coming from the same building and the same department (procurement) to pick the same document that I had gone to get (quotation) From there on, we started chatting and even boarded the same matatu and in the process of discussing…

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