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BENEFITS OF LIVING A SINGLE LIFE (My story)

As most of you may or may not know, I have been single for almost 2 years now.  At first, it was hard as I had just come from a 7 year long distance relationship, from which I had two babies. Then of course I tried to do what most women do after a break up.. move on fast in order to: 1.Avoid dealing with the pain. 2.Prove to my ex that I could be appealing to other men. 3.Try to get away from the thought of ever getting back…

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HOW TO DEAL WITH ABSENT MINDEDNESS IN CHILDREN

Recently, my son and I have had it a little rough as I try to discipline him on matters to do with obedience and responsibility. He has been losing an item daily at school.. little did i know that it all has to do with absent mindedness. So one night before he slept i said to him, “you’re a good boy and I am sometimes tough on you only because I want you to grow up to be a good person. I want you to grow up to be a…

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6 Things That I Learnt From Being Broke

‘You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, ‘I lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ ~ Eleanor Roosevelt ‘Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved’ ~ Helen Keller Being broke is not a funny affair and no one wants to be in that situation. So we…

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6 THINGS THAT REALLY CAME IN HANDY WHEN I WAS BROKE.

If you are ambitious, in business, a risk taker, sometimes unrealistic and act on impulse etc.; you will lose money once or several times in your life. This could lead to having financial problems that could leave you bankrupt or broke in some cases. Last year, people close to me (family/business partners) and I were going through a rough time financially. Then came elections and things got even worse. Most of my income sources were not coming through and this led to living from hand to mouth, and I was…

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WHY I DECIDED TO START BLOGGING

It all started back in May 2017 when a person very close to me told me that I had a way with words and that I should continue writing that ‘men stuff,‘ and maybe one day I could blog and make Money for my kid’s school fees. Well, I didn’t take what he said seriously at the time until I did a post on ‘MAFISI’ and one of my friends, a journalist, did an article on it and it was picked by three major Radio stations. For this and many…

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